Forgiveness and Reconciliation

As flawed humans, we tend to avoid forgiveness and reconciliation like the plague. We are reluctant to forgive offenders of wrongdoing. And fearful to admit a bad mistake, poor decisions, and judgment.

Mainly when your choices cause others pain and anguish.

Their judgment can be harsh and opinions downright demoralizing. Their reaction can lower your spirits and leave you in a more downtrodden and oppressed state.

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How to Overcome the Fear of Being Vulnerable

How can you learn to overcome the fear of being vulnerable? The best way to overcome the fear of being vulnerable is to do what you fear, walking by faith.

Having suffered abuse at the hands of parents, a boyfriend, husband or stranger leads to being fearful and distrusting. The last thing you want to do is be vulnerable.

Vulnerability to an abuse survivor means you are open and trusting of others. It leaves you susceptible to a possible attack of abuse, criticism and personal judgment.

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How to Overcome Emotional Pain

Do you have a hard time learning how to overcome emotional pain? Is it difficult for you to overcome past hurts? Read this story to learn how to overcome emotional pain and move forward in life.

I understand the agony in letting go of past hurts. Know the struggle of overcoming emotional pain. Have suffered from child abuse, neglect and sexual abuse. My heart became filled with emotional distress after enduring domestic violence and losing children.

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What Kind of a Mom Were You?

A unique blog post for my daughter Breyann to answer her question, “what kind of a mom were you?”

My heart broke into a million pieces after losing you and scattered on the ground. I became numb to feeling anything for a long time. Suffering through abuse and domestic violence prevented me from bonding with you and your brother.

I lost custody of you and your brother and ran in fear for my life.

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