Writing about Overcoming Adversity
It’s possible to love a man without being sexual. Say what, I grappled with this problem for over twenty years and discovered the answer. And no it’s not through his stomach so hold the biscuits and gravy.
How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual – a blog post to answer my daughter’s comment on “Why Doesn’t My Mom Love Me.” She was interested to know how to love a man without being sexual.
How Men Show They Are in Love – a follow-up post, in conclusion, to “How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual.“
Over the years, our father unknowingly taught his daughters that men show their love for a woman by having sexual intercourse with her. Having witnessed inappropriate sexual contact repeatedly, I developed an abnormal mindset that carried over into adulthood.
I believed the way to win a man’s heart was through sexual pleasure. That sexually pleasing him made him fall in love. To me, this was the reality of how men were in general. I was unaware that a man would not fall in love with or show his love for a woman by having sexual intercourse with her.
Trying to catch a man is hard. Getting him to fall in love is easy when you know the right way to attract a man.
I’m embarrassed to post this picture of me online. However, not ashamed in 2013 when I uploaded this picture and similar ones (without the burning X effect) to an online dating website.